Thursday, January 27, 2011

and he danced...


(I will try to upload a video and pictures tomorrow. Today it is not working)

Morning after the surgery. Dad wanted to dance. We walked over to our friends room who also had the surgery yesterday and they had a fun time showing off how great they felt.
Very fun!

We all got discharged from the hospital at 3pm and everyone was feeling ready to go to their rooms and rest. It has been a big last few days. But I think you would get an overall feeling of happiness amongst the group. Even though there were no huge miracles, everyone felt some differnces in how they felt. Now the hard work of Physio is yet to come. Tomorrow dad has 2 appointments with the physiotherapist.


Dad has another 12 days of pysio left. Every day will be tonnes of hard work. Please keep him in your thoughts as this is the tough part.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

All is well

Dad just came up from recovery (8pm). ALL IS GREAT!! He said he feels like dancing(might be the drugs talking)LOL. But he looks great, sounds great and is VERY happy.  I will try to post some pictures tomorrow. But just wanted to let everyone know that your prayers have been heard and we are very happy her is Costa Rica

surgery day!!

We are waiting to be picked up by the taxi and brought to the hospital. The procedure will only take place around 4 to 5 pm tonight. It will be a lot of waiting around while he fasts during the day. The procedure will take from 45 min. to 2 hours depending on what they find. Then an hour in recovery and back up to his room where he will have to lie flat for 8 hours to prevent complications in the insition by his groin. Tomorrow we will know more. For now I have to get down to the van.
Wendy

Monday, January 24, 2011

First day of appointments

It is hard to believe that I have not had time to write in the blog, but time just gets away from us and suddenly it is late and the day is done.


We arrived in Costa Rica on Sat around 7pm or so. There was suppposed to be a driver waiting for us. We looked and waited and got others to help us. We finally decided that it was time to get ourselves to the hotel. Dean spotted another group of people who looked in the same boat as we and found they were also waiting for a ride to the same hotel. So we all got in a van together.

The hotel is quite nice. It has a resteraunt, a pool and a small bar. After getting dad setttled into the room, Dean and I took a walk to see about getting a small dinner together. The hotel restaraunt is quite expensive and we really didn't need much. We walked up to a small 7-11 type place and bought some bread, ham and drinks.



Sunday morning we all felt much better. We were rested and with the sun shining, it felt great to walk over to the buffet and grab a wonerful breakfsast. We then gave dad's friend Robert a call and he came to pick us up. We spent the day at Robert and Zeda's house. Zeda made us an amazing dinner of BBQ ribs, shrimp shish-ka-bobs and Chillean wine. They live in a small subburb and so we had a wonderful relaxing afternoon. Robert also took us for a drive around to show us some property they are developing.



This morning (monday) we had breakfast and headed over for dad's firt appointment. It was a pre-op appointment where he got an EKG, blood tests and an ultra sound of the veins and arteries in his neck. They check to see where the blockages are so they have a heads up for the opperation. They can't tell for certain if there will be more blockages than what they see on the ultra sound until they start the operation and put the dye through the viens and then they willl see more. SO far we know that Dad does have a blockage in his right jugular vein and something wrong with his left vertabrae vein. The ultra sound showed that the blood on his left vertabrae vein was not draining properly and as a result the blood was back traking into his brain, which is not good. So they will try to fix that on Wednesday.










We spent the whole morning at his appointments and stopped at the nearby malll to get some lunch. It was really a lot of walking and waiting and as a result dad was ready to get back to the hotel and have a rest and get off his feet.



We have been paired up with a lady and her friend from Calgary for our appointments. Dawn and Heather came down on the same day as us and it has worked out great as we have made some new friends. Heather also has MS and it was really neat to meet them in Calgary airport and now again at the hotel. Heather is also having her surgery on Wednesday so we have been travelling from appointment to appointment together. We also had lunch with them at the mall.At 3:15 dad has his pre-op physio appointment so they can evaluate his condition before surgery and will know how things have changed post surgery.

Apparently this is a bit of a workout so I am hoping that dad will get some rest before his appointment as he has had a big day already. Dean and I are getting a bit of sun and now I have time to make a blog post.
I heard that the kids don't have school today. Sounds like a nice long weekend for them before exams.

On another note. We have seen James from town and things are looking really great for him. He is traipsing around the hotel. Looking very steady and happy to be able to walk well again. Very great to see. Everyone at the hotel that is here for the MS procedure get together and talk about what they have been going through and supposrt each other through the days before and after the surgery. It is very nice to see people banding together and helping one another through this time. Some people have had great results and others have been dissapointed with how they feel after. Some peoples expectaions were a bit high for the results that they got I guess. But most are smilling which is great to see.

Well, time to get back into the sun. No sense in waisting the time I have in the shade when the sun is shinning. I tryed to type on the computer in the sun and I couldn't see the screen. Turns out we don't have internet in our room for free,so I have to come out to the lobby. Which will make it harder to blog and skype I guess.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

we are here!

Just a quick note to say we made it safely to Costa Rica. My sinus pain improved on the second flight. We had really great seat right behind first class, so lots of leg room. dean and I walked up to the little store and bought ham, buns and drinks for supper. The be3d is looking very comfy and I took a couple of sleeping pills so it should ne a good sleep for me. Night

on the way

Well it's 5am and we are sitting in the Calgary airport waiting for our flight. We got through customs and security very quickly. It is much quicker if you have someone in a wheelchair. We met another woman in a wheelchair and found out she is also going for the MS treatment and she will be in the hospital at the same time as dad and is also staying at the same hotel as we are. That was really cool.
Dad seems really good, not at all nervous. I didn't sleep a wink last night. I don't think its fro feeling nervous or anything. Not sure why. Tonight I am hoping I will finally be tired enough to get a good nights sleep. Dad gets up to go to the bathroom at least 3 or 4 times a night and I am a really light sleeper. So it will take a bit of getting used to. I might have to look for some sleeping pills or something.

Last night Dean and I drove down to the south end of Calgary to see D'arcy and Shelby (our nieces)and the kids. It was really nice. Kenton is 2 and talking a mile a minute. He is so well behaved and such a great polite kid. D'arcy is doing a great job of raising him.
Jacob is such a sweetie-pie. I walked in the door, and spent the next few hours feeding him and playing with him and getting him to sleep. Baby heaven!! It was a great visit. The girls seem to be doing really well and it was so nice to be able to see them after so many years.

We should arrive in Costa Rica at 7:20 tonight. We will get picked up at the airport by the hotel. It will be great to feel +30 again.

Tuesday, January 18, 2011

a new beginning

                                                  Thankfully


                                   each day is a new beginning.







                        As the clouds clear away and the sun rises.


 I am once again reminded to look to the future, not the past.


                                              To choose JOY.


                                       Because joy is a choice.


                            Every day is a new chance to start again.